"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Met this chick at my job. (Read it.)

ThunderMaverick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2004
Messages
1,945
Reaction score
70
Age
45
I had a job in marina del ray bartending for an employee party. There was a girl there who was setting everything up before the party began. Hm details. Ah well let me think. We made eye contact a few times so I knew she was attracted to me. I remembered a post where someone said the person you're very attracted to are also just as or more attracted to you. I decided to go off that and Bla bla bla. Man I really hate details. But anyways later in the night I pulled her aside and talked to her while serving her drinks. We had a good convo and she was very curious about me (she asked alot of questions. Maybe too many questions. o_O). She was a cute half breed like me (Black and white). 26 years old. (A year older than me) I got her number at the end of the night and told her we'd hang out soon. She got my number also.


I tossed her number out. I don't feel like dealing with women right now.
 
Last edited:

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Charm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2003
Messages
1,268
Reaction score
11
Age
43
Well done an the approach/number close. Nothing wrong with keeping up the practice :)
 

PleasureKing

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2006
Messages
175
Reaction score
1
so you tried to C.A a girl at your own job? if you did for intentions of setting a relationship, S-T-U-P-I-D! im glad you dropped her number at the end.

work relationships never work out. dont believe me? (go do some research)
 

ThunderMaverick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2004
Messages
1,945
Reaction score
70
Age
45
Actually the company I worked for was based in downdown Los Angeles. We were helping out another company by hosting a dinner for them out in marina del ray. It's like if the staff at a mc donald's branch were having a party, and they crew from burger king helped out and served food. That's what it pretty much was.

So no, I didn't work with her. She looked like a good lay too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top