Met the Perfect Girl Tonight

[Yo'Mama]

At least the perfect looking girl. Half Asian half Israeli. This girl was a bit shorter than me (i'm 6ft 1), tanned, eurasian features. Just simply perfect.

The only problems are:

1. She lives on the other side of the world.
2. I'm not sure she likes me that much.

I'm not sure I'm ever going to get a girl like that. **** my life. Am living in Asia. Some hot girls here but not like this one. Goddamnit.

 

[WorkingDJ]

Putting her on a mighty fine pedestal up there.

 

[sexysuave]

Not sure what the point of your post it.

First of all, you saying that she DOESN"T like you much, means that nothing else about this girl matters. I don't care how perfect she is, if her interest level in you is not there, than what's the point? There are some pretty damn hot girls on TV also and maxim models and what not, and some of them I think look damn near perfect, but what's it to me if unless I meet her and spark attraction? But believe you me, if I'm single, and I do meet them, I'm running game, that's a given lol. If it doesn't work it doesn't work, but at least I'll try, that's for sure.

You should have done the same with this girl. If she was only in town visiting for a little bit, you should have tried to hit it. No, you should not be this nice guy and try to get in a relationship with a girl who lives on the other side of the world. Sure, it's a nice romance story, but it aint' gonna work long term (at least not 98% of the time.. ). So your best bet in this situation would have been to go for the lay. Trust me, as much as you don't think so, that's probably what she would prefer too.

So, first thing to get in mind is:

NO GIRLS ARE PERFECT ... actually having a mind set that some chick is "perfect" is a basis for your oneitis and almost guarantees your doom with that chick.. so get it outta your mind, I dont' care who she is,, she aint' perfect

Second thing is:

IF YOU LIKE A GIRL, "GO FOR IT"... make a move on her.. if she rejects you, simple.. move on.. at least you'll never have to live with that "ohhh I wonder what would have happened had I tried" regret... you NEVER have to live with that if you simply always "go for it"... end of the story..


Third...

BE POSITIVE.... your posts sounds pretty negative.. cheer up.. life is short... don't take everything so seriously... no one gets out alive

 

[Yo'Mama]

Not sure what the point of your post it.

First of all, you saying that she DOESN"T like you much, means that nothing else about this girl matters. I don't care how perfect she is, if her interest level in you is not there, than what's the point? There are some pretty damn hot girls on TV also and maxim models and what not, and some of them I think look damn near perfect, but what's it to me if unless I meet her and spark attraction? But believe you me, if I'm single, and I do meet them, I'm running game, that's a given lol. If it doesn't work it doesn't work, but at least I'll try, that's for sure.

You should have done the same with this girl. If she was only in town visiting for a little bit, you should have tried to hit it. No, you should not be this nice guy and try to get in a relationship with a girl who lives on the other side of the world. Sure, it's a nice romance story, but it aint' gonna work long term (at least not 98% of the time.. ). So your best bet in this situation would have been to go for the lay. Trust me, as much as you don't think so, that's probably what she would prefer too.

So, first thing to get in mind is:

NO GIRLS ARE PERFECT ... actually having a mind set that some chick is "perfect" is a basis for your oneitis and almost guarantees your doom with that chick.. so get it outta your mind, I dont' care who she is,, she aint' perfect

Second thing is:

IF YOU LIKE A GIRL, "GO FOR IT"... make a move on her.. if she rejects you, simple.. move on.. at least you'll never have to live with that "ohhh I wonder what would have happened had I tried" regret... you NEVER have to live with that if you simply always "go for it"... end of the story..


Third...

BE POSITIVE.... your posts sounds pretty negative.. cheer up.. life is short... don't take everything so seriously... no one gets out alive

Dude I agree fully. I did go for it but wasn't getting anywhere with it. Lack of game? Lack of attraction? Who knows. Anyway I did my best, even if it wasn't good enough. She's not perfect obviously but perfect looking for me. The thing is bro I live in Asia and i'm so sick of the short, flat girls here. So tonight for the first time in a long long time I met a girl who is 100% my type. Tall, tanned and beautiful (and native English speaking).

There's no point to my post. I'm just drunk and frustrated and trying to get it out of my system. I'm really fed up of Asian girls (ironically given that I know how fed up my American brahs are of US women). Jesus you have some beautiful girls there though.

 

[sexysuave]

ha ha got ya..

So are you asian also? Or just living there?

Wouldn't hurt to travel the world a little bit and explore all sorts of different girls, you seem to have a pretty good grasp of the English language.

And yes, the grass seems to "be greener on the other side", I wish more people would realize it. Everyone complains about what they have lol, until they get something else, and then they go on to complain about that .

 

[Yo'Mama]

Heh I'm English hence the English language proficiency. I just live and work out here.

It's true about the grass is greener phenomenon. When I came here I really found Asian girls hot (novelty factor). Now I'm sick of them.

I can meet girls easily enough but I absolutely love the tall, tanned beauties. You're right about travelling. I think it's going to have to be a South American country next. I don't think I could ever get sick of those women.

Some Asian girls are beautiful for sure but it's very unusual to find a hot one with curves. At least here. Maybe in Korea or China it's easier.

So anyway, I know i'm putting this girl from tonight on a bit of a pedestal but I guess I was just so excited to meet someone I was massively attracted to for the first time in a long time. And obviously we could communicate as well. Many people speak English here but very few to a really high level.
Well, it can't be helped. Maybe I could have done better but it's just one of those things. There must be lots of girls that look like her in Miami. Just so rare here!

 

[Yo'Mama]

Ok I'm sober now. Sorry guys the thread title was stupid. Should have been 'Met perfect looking girl tonight'.

And sexysuave you're totally right there are perfect looking women on TV, etc. The difference here was this woman felt within my grasp (maybe she wasn't though). We just talked for 40 mins, that's it.

I just can't get interested in 8's and below anymore. But I'm not good enough to get the 9's and 10's. Hence the frustration. Time to up the game, get ripped, etc.