"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Met stripper with lots of baggage lol..need help.

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Ok, so I meet this stripper at a house party and use alot of c&f and build some rep throughout the night. This girl is 32 years old and fine as fuc. I am only 24. I could tell that she was interested in me so i got her number that night. But the one problem I had was that she kept talking about all of her exboyfriends and her exhusband. How do I change the subject or get her to stop talking about this boring ****.

Also, I am looking nothing more from her than a physical relationship but I want to stay really cool with her because I met her at a stripper pajam party and I want to stay cool with her so that I have outs with some of her aquitances.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you don't care, you wouldn't be posting this. You are falling for this worthless chick already. JUST TRY TO FUKK HER. SHE IS WORTH NOTHING ELSE TO YOU, EXCEPT DRAMA.

Fukk her and nut all over her face.
 
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Yikes... don't let her talk about her ex's. She's gonna use you as a TB (talk buddy, my definition unless someone else has patented it here).
 
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Whenever she starts blabbing about them, just be like "Babe, that's the past. Relax, let's get your mind off that sh*t" and do something fun.
 
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speed dawg said:
If you don't care, you wouldn't be posting this. You are falling for this worthless chick already. JUST TRY TO FUKK HER. SHE IS WORTH NOTHING ELSE TO YOU, EXCEPT DRAMA.

Fukk her and nut all over her face.
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Bro, i am just learning this stuff and trying to use as much pratice as I can get. I have no desire to have any relationship with her other than physical and/or for future hook ups in the stripper community.

Thanks for the help guys. Much appreciated
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well a stripper is as big of a red flag as you can get don't you think?

Anyway - who cares what she talks about? You aren't going to be with her for her charming personality or long term viability. Just let her blab away and have some casual sex if thats what you are looking for...
 
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Read my thread on strippers and concider what's being said there wisely before taking any actions on dating strippers.
 
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Paper said:
Ok, so I meet this stripper at a house party and use alot of c&f and build some rep throughout the night. This girl is 32 years old and fine as fuc. I am only 24. I could tell that she was interested in me so i got her number that night. But the one problem I had was that she kept talking about all of her exboyfriends and her exhusband. How do I change the subject or get her to stop talking about this boring ****.

Also, I am looking nothing more from her than a physical relationship but I want to stay really cool with her because I met her at a stripper pajam party and I want to stay cool with her so that I have outs with some of her aquitances.
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You met a stripper with baggage, eh? You know that's like saying, "I drove a car with tires yesterday"? :rolleyes:
 
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