"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Met stripper with lots of baggage lol..need help.

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Ok, so I meet this stripper at a house party and use alot of c&f and build some rep throughout the night. This girl is 32 years old and fine as fuc. I am only 24. I could tell that she was interested in me so i got her number that night. But the one problem I had was that she kept talking about all of her exboyfriends and her exhusband. How do I change the subject or get her to stop talking about this boring ****.

Also, I am looking nothing more from her than a physical relationship but I want to stay really cool with her because I met her at a stripper pajam party and I want to stay cool with her so that I have outs with some of her aquitances.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you don't care, you wouldn't be posting this. You are falling for this worthless chick already. JUST TRY TO FUKK HER. SHE IS WORTH NOTHING ELSE TO YOU, EXCEPT DRAMA.

Fukk her and nut all over her face.
 
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Yikes... don't let her talk about her ex's. She's gonna use you as a TB (talk buddy, my definition unless someone else has patented it here).
 
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Whenever she starts blabbing about them, just be like "Babe, that's the past. Relax, let's get your mind off that sh*t" and do something fun.
 
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speed dawg said:
If you don't care, you wouldn't be posting this. You are falling for this worthless chick already. JUST TRY TO FUKK HER. SHE IS WORTH NOTHING ELSE TO YOU, EXCEPT DRAMA.

Fukk her and nut all over her face.
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Bro, i am just learning this stuff and trying to use as much pratice as I can get. I have no desire to have any relationship with her other than physical and/or for future hook ups in the stripper community.

Thanks for the help guys. Much appreciated
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well a stripper is as big of a red flag as you can get don't you think?

Anyway - who cares what she talks about? You aren't going to be with her for her charming personality or long term viability. Just let her blab away and have some casual sex if thats what you are looking for...
 
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Read my thread on strippers and concider what's being said there wisely before taking any actions on dating strippers.
 
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Paper said:
Ok, so I meet this stripper at a house party and use alot of c&f and build some rep throughout the night. This girl is 32 years old and fine as fuc. I am only 24. I could tell that she was interested in me so i got her number that night. But the one problem I had was that she kept talking about all of her exboyfriends and her exhusband. How do I change the subject or get her to stop talking about this boring ****.

Also, I am looking nothing more from her than a physical relationship but I want to stay really cool with her because I met her at a stripper pajam party and I want to stay cool with her so that I have outs with some of her aquitances.
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You met a stripper with baggage, eh? You know that's like saying, "I drove a car with tires yesterday"? :rolleyes:
 
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