"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Met, hit it off, she went abroad for a week, when should i ask her out?

DJMaC23

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Hey guys, so last Sat was the second time meeting a coworker of one of my best friends (first time was over a year ago) and this time around we ended up hitting it off and dancing together throughout the nite.

Anyways we exchanged numbers, a little texting during the day that sunday and then she texted me monday nite, which i followed up with a call. We were on the phone for an hour (I normally talk on phone like 5 min MAX with females lol) and I had mentioned how much fun we had sat and that we should get together soon to which she agreed.

She went on a trip with family abroad for the labor day weekend and will be back monday night. I'm going to be unusually busy working wed-fri night this upcoming week and next week and all day both saturdays til late evening, think it'd be too soon to text or call her this tuesday afternoon to ask her out for dinner? We're both mid 20s so texting isn't really a big thing, i'd probably try to text her while shes at work midday/early afternoon..

I don't really want to come off over-eager or needy but at the same time shes pretty cute, seems really nice and interesting and I'd like to see where it could go.. any advice is much appreciated, thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do it Tuesday bro. You guys already hit it off and it's obvious that she likes you. Let her know you have a busy week ahead of you and that Tuesday is the only good day for you. She'll understand. Plus you'll have plenty to talk about (her trip).

All girls like busy guys with lives.

Good luck.

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DJMaC23

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Thanks for the advice man, I'm gonna send her a txt early in the afternoon before she's off of work tuesday for dinner and stroll in the city that night
 
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