“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Met, hit it off, she went abroad for a week, when should i ask her out?

DJMaC23

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Hey guys, so last Sat was the second time meeting a coworker of one of my best friends (first time was over a year ago) and this time around we ended up hitting it off and dancing together throughout the nite.

Anyways we exchanged numbers, a little texting during the day that sunday and then she texted me monday nite, which i followed up with a call. We were on the phone for an hour (I normally talk on phone like 5 min MAX with females lol) and I had mentioned how much fun we had sat and that we should get together soon to which she agreed.

She went on a trip with family abroad for the labor day weekend and will be back monday night. I'm going to be unusually busy working wed-fri night this upcoming week and next week and all day both saturdays til late evening, think it'd be too soon to text or call her this tuesday afternoon to ask her out for dinner? We're both mid 20s so texting isn't really a big thing, i'd probably try to text her while shes at work midday/early afternoon..

I don't really want to come off over-eager or needy but at the same time shes pretty cute, seems really nice and interesting and I'd like to see where it could go.. any advice is much appreciated, thanks
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Do it Tuesday bro. You guys already hit it off and it's obvious that she likes you. Let her know you have a busy week ahead of you and that Tuesday is the only good day for you. She'll understand. Plus you'll have plenty to talk about (her trip).

All girls like busy guys with lives.

Good luck.

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Thanks for the advice man, I'm gonna send her a txt early in the afternoon before she's off of work tuesday for dinner and stroll in the city that night
 
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