"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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met her once, she's going away for a month...

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i met this girl the other day and we're still talking alot and there's always sexual talk like what we should do next time or what we should've done. anyway, i told her we should go to the beach (so i could say goodbye) cause she's leaving tomorrow for a month for work. kinda far away. i'm just wondering, will that put me in the friendzone since i won't be seeing her? she says when she comes back she'll pick me up and this and that. should i just wait till she gets back cause i kinda can't be fuked goin out today lol. and she hasn't mentioned anything about her wanting to go today (we discussed going last night and she was like she'll let me know.)

p.s; she calls me baby sometimes *shrugs*
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"She'll let you know" HUH?? Tell her to call you if when she gets back to town and leave it at that!
 
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yeah cause like, this other beautiful girl all of a sudden keeps calling me and we click very fast. we both love guitar so that kinda helps. i won't be waiting for the other girl like a puppy. i'm talking to other ladies ;] - i mean, i dont have reason to feel bad right? i'm not officially dating the other gal. she likes to think we are cause she calls me babe and all that stuff. should i feel bad that i'm messing with other girls?
 
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