"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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met her once, she's going away for a month...

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i met this girl the other day and we're still talking alot and there's always sexual talk like what we should do next time or what we should've done. anyway, i told her we should go to the beach (so i could say goodbye) cause she's leaving tomorrow for a month for work. kinda far away. i'm just wondering, will that put me in the friendzone since i won't be seeing her? she says when she comes back she'll pick me up and this and that. should i just wait till she gets back cause i kinda can't be fuked goin out today lol. and she hasn't mentioned anything about her wanting to go today (we discussed going last night and she was like she'll let me know.)

p.s; she calls me baby sometimes *shrugs*
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She'll let you know" HUH?? Tell her to call you if when she gets back to town and leave it at that!
 
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yeah cause like, this other beautiful girl all of a sudden keeps calling me and we click very fast. we both love guitar so that kinda helps. i won't be waiting for the other girl like a puppy. i'm talking to other ladies ;] - i mean, i dont have reason to feel bad right? i'm not officially dating the other gal. she likes to think we are cause she calls me babe and all that stuff. should i feel bad that i'm messing with other girls?
 
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