"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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met her once, she's going away for a month...

tony-montana

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i met this girl the other day and we're still talking alot and there's always sexual talk like what we should do next time or what we should've done. anyway, i told her we should go to the beach (so i could say goodbye) cause she's leaving tomorrow for a month for work. kinda far away. i'm just wondering, will that put me in the friendzone since i won't be seeing her? she says when she comes back she'll pick me up and this and that. should i just wait till she gets back cause i kinda can't be fuked goin out today lol. and she hasn't mentioned anything about her wanting to go today (we discussed going last night and she was like she'll let me know.)

p.s; she calls me baby sometimes *shrugs*
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She'll let you know" HUH?? Tell her to call you if when she gets back to town and leave it at that!
 

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yeah cause like, this other beautiful girl all of a sudden keeps calling me and we click very fast. we both love guitar so that kinda helps. i won't be waiting for the other girl like a puppy. i'm talking to other ladies ;] - i mean, i dont have reason to feel bad right? i'm not officially dating the other gal. she likes to think we are cause she calls me babe and all that stuff. should i feel bad that i'm messing with other girls?
 
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