met girl online, got phone number, now what do i do?

[LADawg49]

Yesterday, I wuz lurking about in one of the chatrooms and I talk to this 28 year old girl(Im 21). I live in Los Angeles and she lives in San Diego(bout 125 miles away). our conversation turns out good with me throwing in some C+F in the mix. In addition, she told me that she goes to L.A. every now and then to eat at her fav. food place(Roscoes Chicken and Waffles for those familiar with L.A.) then before I leave I get her name and numbers(both home and cell). Question is, when do u think would be the best time for me to call? Also when should I ask her out to meet up? The thing is that i dont know her schedule cause she'll have to be driving all the way up here to meet me so I cant be spontaneous, ya know.

 

[Double J]

Make sure that meeting in the next few weeks is feasible. You don't want to end up waiting months and months to meet this girl. Meeting as soon as possible will be the only sure way to know whether there is mutual attraction or not.

 

[Royal Elite]

First off call her right away. Since this isnt local, and people lie in chat rooms you have to get acquinted for real. This is chess soildier just take you time. Get to know her, not what she does but her. Just ask her questions about the way she feels about things, what she wants to do, what she likes. Nothing lame like factual questions. since she never met you you have to make her feel comfortable. Throw in at the end, I cant wait to meet you, unless she brings it up first then make plans. Dont wait for nine days, man up and call her as soon as you can. Remember ask questions that get to her soul, her likes, dislikes, ambitions, and questions that envoke emotion.

 

[Bonhomme]

Agreed with DoubleJ

Call her fairly soon, and make plans to meet the next time she's in LA.

 

[LADawg49]

as for gettin to know her, did most of that online asked most of those same questions u mentioned and we got few things in common. as for the callin rule, I thought the bible says wait 48-72 hours, which is why im thinkin of waitin till thursday.. how would the rule not apply in this case?