Yesterday, I wuz lurking about in one of the chatrooms and I talk to this 28 year old girl(Im 21). I live in Los Angeles and she lives in San Diego(bout 125 miles away). our conversation turns out good with me throwing in some C+F in the mix. In addition, she told me that she goes to L.A. every now and then to eat at her fav. food place(Roscoes Chicken and Waffles for those familiar with L.A.) then before I leave I get her name and numbers(both home and cell). Question is, when do u think would be the best time for me to call? Also when should I ask her out to meet up? The thing is that i dont know her schedule cause she'll have to be driving all the way up here to meet me so I cant be spontaneous, ya know.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
met girl online, got phone number, now what do i do?
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