"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Last week I was at a movie theatre next to a couple in a bar before the show. As is typical in Texas, the man was trying to use his body to obstruct my view of his date, but I caught a glimpse of her eye contact when he brushed his long hair back. I could tell that she didn't appreciate his antisocial behavior (don't be that guy).

Anyhow, when I got up to leave she made eye contact again so I said "Excuse me, but I know I've seen you someplace before" and she said "Have you been here before?" and I said "No, this is my first time here."
Then she said "Have you seen the movie Mud?" and I replied "Yes, that is one of my favorite movies..."

"I was in that movie." she said "I was the girl who broke the little boy's heart."

You will have moments in life when time stands still, and this was one of them for me. I said "I do remember you from that movie and I thought you were incredibly beautiful." Not only did I remember her, I had paused the movie (in a 46" Blu Ray screenshot of her butt) and looked her up on IMDB the first time I saw her. If you've seen the movie you know the exact frame I'm talking about.

Note that her date, who had previously rotated himself 90 degrees at the bar to put his back to me, had now rotated 90 degrees back to face the bar, keeping his back to me. Still, I said "This guy is doing something right!" and patted him on the back. He offered an underarm handshake without making eye contact (don't be that guy).

I asked her name and told me as she extended her hand. This woman was Bonnie Sturdivant. This girl was genuinely sweet, and a knockout.

I got out of there quick, but it was great to see that actual movie stars are not much different than the beauties we've seen before. More importantly, know that genuinely pretty girls are usually very friendly, even if you approach them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nice dude....seen mud on Netlflix, good flick reminded me somewhat of Stand By Me.
 

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It's a great movie about a little boy's view of love, compared to the harsh reality. In fact, definitely recommended for any SS student.
 

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I actually met Angelina Jolie at E3 2000, but I was never much of a fan.

So tonight I had a premonition that I would see the movie star Bonnie Sturdivant again at a certain time and place. So I drove straight there. The moment I walked in - there she was at the bar (not the same bar I met her at). How does this keep happening? Anyhow, she looked right at me. I felt a bit of nerves but I went straight over and said "Hi, Bonnie". The jitters subsided over the next 5 minutes. It turned out she was alone. By this point I had so many questions (I had watched Mud again since meeting her). I spent 45 minutes interviewing a real movie star. She is a sweetheart. If only every girl were so sweet. Bonnie is auditioning this week.

She posed for a photo for me but I promised I wouldn't publish it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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