"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last week I was at a movie theatre next to a couple in a bar before the show. As is typical in Texas, the man was trying to use his body to obstruct my view of his date, but I caught a glimpse of her eye contact when he brushed his long hair back. I could tell that she didn't appreciate his antisocial behavior (don't be that guy).

Anyhow, when I got up to leave she made eye contact again so I said "Excuse me, but I know I've seen you someplace before" and she said "Have you been here before?" and I said "No, this is my first time here."
Then she said "Have you seen the movie Mud?" and I replied "Yes, that is one of my favorite movies..."

"I was in that movie." she said "I was the girl who broke the little boy's heart."

You will have moments in life when time stands still, and this was one of them for me. I said "I do remember you from that movie and I thought you were incredibly beautiful." Not only did I remember her, I had paused the movie (in a 46" Blu Ray screenshot of her butt) and looked her up on IMDB the first time I saw her. If you've seen the movie you know the exact frame I'm talking about.

Note that her date, who had previously rotated himself 90 degrees at the bar to put his back to me, had now rotated 90 degrees back to face the bar, keeping his back to me. Still, I said "This guy is doing something right!" and patted him on the back. He offered an underarm handshake without making eye contact (don't be that guy).

I asked her name and told me as she extended her hand. This woman was Bonnie Sturdivant. This girl was genuinely sweet, and a knockout.

I got out of there quick, but it was great to see that actual movie stars are not much different than the beauties we've seen before. More importantly, know that genuinely pretty girls are usually very friendly, even if you approach them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice dude....seen mud on Netlflix, good flick reminded me somewhat of Stand By Me.
 

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It's a great movie about a little boy's view of love, compared to the harsh reality. In fact, definitely recommended for any SS student.
 

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I actually met Angelina Jolie at E3 2000, but I was never much of a fan.

So tonight I had a premonition that I would see the movie star Bonnie Sturdivant again at a certain time and place. So I drove straight there. The moment I walked in - there she was at the bar (not the same bar I met her at). How does this keep happening? Anyhow, she looked right at me. I felt a bit of nerves but I went straight over and said "Hi, Bonnie". The jitters subsided over the next 5 minutes. It turned out she was alone. By this point I had so many questions (I had watched Mud again since meeting her). I spent 45 minutes interviewing a real movie star. She is a sweetheart. If only every girl were so sweet. Bonnie is auditioning this week.

She posed for a photo for me but I promised I wouldn't publish it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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