"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Met cute girl...need some quick thoughts/advice

jophil28

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Jeffst1980 said:
When a girl is interested, the meet should be an afterthought. If she wants to see you, you can invite her to come help you clean your house and she'll accept. Don't put so much significance on asking for a date!
And that ,gentlemen, is exactly how it works.

A lot of you rookies spend way too much effort trying to amp up LOW interest level in uninterested women. You are mostly way too bogged down in magical beliefs about 'game' and cheap PUA techniques.
If a woman is interested in you she will send you her favorite "I like you" coded signals . If your 'receiver' does not respond she will send another and then a few more, each one increasingly bold or blatant.

Interested women will make it easy for you. Uninterested woman will block and stumble your efforts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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