"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Met cute girl...need some quick thoughts/advice

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Jeffst1980 said:
When a girl is interested, the meet should be an afterthought. If she wants to see you, you can invite her to come help you clean your house and she'll accept. Don't put so much significance on asking for a date!
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And that ,gentlemen, is exactly how it works.

A lot of you rookies spend way too much effort trying to amp up LOW interest level in uninterested women. You are mostly way too bogged down in magical beliefs about 'game' and cheap PUA techniques.
If a woman is interested in you she will send you her favorite "I like you" coded signals . If your 'receiver' does not respond she will send another and then a few more, each one increasingly bold or blatant.

Interested women will make it easy for you. Uninterested woman will block and stumble your efforts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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