"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Met cute girl...need some quick thoughts/advice

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Jeffst1980 said:
When a girl is interested, the meet should be an afterthought. If she wants to see you, you can invite her to come help you clean your house and she'll accept. Don't put so much significance on asking for a date!
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And that ,gentlemen, is exactly how it works.

A lot of you rookies spend way too much effort trying to amp up LOW interest level in uninterested women. You are mostly way too bogged down in magical beliefs about 'game' and cheap PUA techniques.
If a woman is interested in you she will send you her favorite "I like you" coded signals . If your 'receiver' does not respond she will send another and then a few more, each one increasingly bold or blatant.

Interested women will make it easy for you. Uninterested woman will block and stumble your efforts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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