"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Met at Party, Got her #, Advice

platon

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I am quite a newbie here, but I really like the 'to the point' style especially encouraged by Master Don Juans.


I am writing in hope that advice will be given to me or a strategy, as well as tactics,

O.K I met this chick at a home party and eventually got her number. She sent me some messages saying that we should "chit-chat" and have a cup of coffee together.

I am planning to call her to my place ( I live alone ). I could offer to watch a thriller together or spend some time? What do you think? Is it a good idea?
Should I call her or type a message to her? ( Okay this one's really aN AFC question -- I had always problems 'calling people')

Thanks for the feedback !
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lYlasTer

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The to the point style is called "direct game."

I suggest you txt msg her. Since you're not comfortable with phone game and she's already txt'ing you, there's nothing wrong with txting a girl.

I suggest doing an event first before you take her back to your place like dinner or an action thing. Taking her directly to your place will raise her "hes trying to get some" alerts.

Watching a thriller or horror movie is my favorite. Once you're cuddling with her on the couch it's easy to get into makeout mode, then sex if you're good.

good luck bro
 

jmeh13

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First Date or w/e the hell you want to call it never take her back to your place. or at least I would not recommend it. she might feel uncomfortable at first

Go some where social do something fun so you then can take her back to the house and she will be loving you because she have a great time and is completely attracted to you
 
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