"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Met at Party, Got her #, Advice

platon

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I am quite a newbie here, but I really like the 'to the point' style especially encouraged by Master Don Juans.


I am writing in hope that advice will be given to me or a strategy, as well as tactics,

O.K I met this chick at a home party and eventually got her number. She sent me some messages saying that we should "chit-chat" and have a cup of coffee together.

I am planning to call her to my place ( I live alone ). I could offer to watch a thriller together or spend some time? What do you think? Is it a good idea?
Should I call her or type a message to her? ( Okay this one's really aN AFC question -- I had always problems 'calling people')

Thanks for the feedback !
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

lYlasTer

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The to the point style is called "direct game."

I suggest you txt msg her. Since you're not comfortable with phone game and she's already txt'ing you, there's nothing wrong with txting a girl.

I suggest doing an event first before you take her back to your place like dinner or an action thing. Taking her directly to your place will raise her "hes trying to get some" alerts.

Watching a thriller or horror movie is my favorite. Once you're cuddling with her on the couch it's easy to get into makeout mode, then sex if you're good.

good luck bro
 

jmeh13

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First Date or w/e the hell you want to call it never take her back to your place. or at least I would not recommend it. she might feel uncomfortable at first

Go some where social do something fun so you then can take her back to the house and she will be loving you because she have a great time and is completely attracted to you
 
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