"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Met at Party, Got her #, Advice

platon

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I am quite a newbie here, but I really like the 'to the point' style especially encouraged by Master Don Juans.


I am writing in hope that advice will be given to me or a strategy, as well as tactics,

O.K I met this chick at a home party and eventually got her number. She sent me some messages saying that we should "chit-chat" and have a cup of coffee together.

I am planning to call her to my place ( I live alone ). I could offer to watch a thriller together or spend some time? What do you think? Is it a good idea?
Should I call her or type a message to her? ( Okay this one's really aN AFC question -- I had always problems 'calling people')

Thanks for the feedback !
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lYlasTer

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The to the point style is called "direct game."

I suggest you txt msg her. Since you're not comfortable with phone game and she's already txt'ing you, there's nothing wrong with txting a girl.

I suggest doing an event first before you take her back to your place like dinner or an action thing. Taking her directly to your place will raise her "hes trying to get some" alerts.

Watching a thriller or horror movie is my favorite. Once you're cuddling with her on the couch it's easy to get into makeout mode, then sex if you're good.

good luck bro
 

jmeh13

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First Date or w/e the hell you want to call it never take her back to your place. or at least I would not recommend it. she might feel uncomfortable at first

Go some where social do something fun so you then can take her back to the house and she will be loving you because she have a great time and is completely attracted to you
 
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