"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Met a (Speed?) Seductress

B9

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Iqqi, most women are not like you. ;)

Then again, I am not like most men. I have a most unusual world, but no desire to show it to anyone. I'd be more than happy to help others develop their worlds to the same kind of happiness, but the fact of the matter is that this world of 'mine' (for I did not invent it. it appeared when I forgot about 'my world') is so strange and alien to common perception, that there would be little point in even trying.
To me, it is kinda like discovering what is means to be normal (though I am, by no means, that) and that everyone else are by contrast, stark raving mad in their conventionality and 'normalcy'. To the insane who do not realise they are so, it is pointless to discuss reality. Then again, I am still very much insane. It does seem though, I am beginning to recognise what is not.

A curious paradox, eh? Desiring women (mentally and physically), yet conscious that no one can ever make me happy but myself.

Btw, !Gx2!, I'd like to read your treatise as well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sex0r

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One Q

Did you hook up with her... and yes women are seducers but finding a true seductress is hard... lol

Lucky you


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D.O.N.J.U.A.N. = Digital Obedient Neohuman Justified for Ultimate Assassination and Nullification

L.O.V.E.R. = Lifeform Optimized for Violence and Efficient Repair

Originally posted by: BGMan

Even I, who two years ago was Mr. Inept Socio-Klutz Extraordinaire, now get an 80% success rate at the number close! 80%!
 
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