Met a new girl. Unsure about her behaviour.

[summersky]

Hey everyone,

i met a girl through onlinedating and I like her a lot. We went out on a first date and even though it was short, we had much fun. We laughed a lot, had deep conversations, I teased her, had a sexual frame. Didnt do much Kino cause the date was so short and it wasnt the right moment. She is always immediately writing be back if I text her and also pick up the phone everytime. Or calls me, if she is at work.
Few days later I called her to set a new date at my place. She told that the next two weeks will be difficult but since she is on a break from work, she can make it then. I stayed persistent and asked when she has free during the two weeks. She told me a day and we set a date. But she told me I have to remind her before, cause she has a short memory. I said I dont remind girls about dates so she told me she would do it herself.
I am also noticing she is still pretty much active on the dating site we met.

I am a bit unsure. I thought she had high interest in me but now I start to wonder if I was wrong.. What do you think?

Regards

 

[Betterz]

Until you've bedded her, play aloof.

 

[mangotot]

She is dating other guys. The only thing you can do is put her on the back burner and find more dates.

 

[old married dude]

She is dating other guys. The only thing you can do is put her on the back burner and find more dates.

Yeah she probably has a lot of dates setup in the next two weeks I'd say.

 

[summersky]

You think so? She is working in a Restaurant and i know shes really busy. But why would she telling me shes Free in two weeks and i mean she agreed to meet in one week.. We just didnt set a time but the Day is already Set.. Man i cant believe this, she was so interested in the beginning, asked me like hundred questions and was telling me shes happy that she Met a guy like me..

 

[summersky]

So now i didnt Text Or called her for three days and heared nothing from her. But i wanted to call three days before the date to Set a time.. What do you think maybe i shouldnt call Till she reaches out Or should i and Set a time?

 

[old married dude]

I say play it cool & let her be the one to reach out if she wants to.

If you don't hear anything, just move onto someone else or whatever.

 

[summersky]

Thanks OMD.. Isnt it worth a try calling her to Set up the time scince we Set up a Day already??

 

[Betterz]

You don't agree or set things up. You lay down the effing rules and Tell her a time. Man up take control.

 

[Rival]

You think so? She is working in a Restaurant and i know shes really busy. But why would she telling me shes Free in two weeks and i mean she agreed to meet in one week.. We just didnt set a time but the Day is already Set.. Man i cant believe this, she was so interested in the beginning, asked me like hundred questions and was telling me shes happy that she Met a guy like me..

Man, take it from me. You can't hold much of what women say as "accountable". She had a good time and felt emotional and was expressing that. Go off what women do rather than what they say. Woman change their "feelings" daily. Don't get invested in her. I tell my guys to view women as pets/entertainment at most. I don't care what they tell you, they can drop you in a week, for no real reason.

IF she is interested as she said, she should get a hold of you.