"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Met a hot Brasilian girl on okcupid

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-Gripz-

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So I met this very hot 19 yo Brasilian girl on okcupid. She is VERY receptive to me. We spoke for a long time and turns out she's dating someone, but she's willing to spend time with me when she comes to the states.

Here's the issue: She wont be in the states until March of next year. So I have no damn clue how I'm going to keep her interested until then. Something is just telling me to forget this one, but she is a really nice girl (from what I could see) so I don't really want to. I mean, she's bound to lose interest one day.

Opinions guys?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're right. Keeping her interested for 9-10 months is going to be a hell of a challenge, esp if she is hot AND dating someone.
 
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Too much effort for a very uncertain result. Just let her contact you before she comes, otherwise you're going to come out as needy.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime

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That you're even entertaining the idea of "waiting on" on a girl for almost one YEAR is ridiculous. Just tell her to message you when she arrives and completely forget about her and move on. Put no more effort into this one. If you ever hear back from her, great. If not, big deal.
 
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