"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Met a hot Brasilian girl on okcupid

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-Gripz-

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So I met this very hot 19 yo Brasilian girl on okcupid. She is VERY receptive to me. We spoke for a long time and turns out she's dating someone, but she's willing to spend time with me when she comes to the states.

Here's the issue: She wont be in the states until March of next year. So I have no damn clue how I'm going to keep her interested until then. Something is just telling me to forget this one, but she is a really nice girl (from what I could see) so I don't really want to. I mean, she's bound to lose interest one day.

Opinions guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're right. Keeping her interested for 9-10 months is going to be a hell of a challenge, esp if she is hot AND dating someone.
 
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Too much effort for a very uncertain result. Just let her contact you before she comes, otherwise you're going to come out as needy.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime

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That you're even entertaining the idea of "waiting on" on a girl for almost one YEAR is ridiculous. Just tell her to message you when she arrives and completely forget about her and move on. Put no more effort into this one. If you ever hear back from her, great. If not, big deal.
 
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