"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Met a hot Brasilian girl on okcupid

-Gripz-

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So I met this very hot 19 yo Brasilian girl on okcupid. She is VERY receptive to me. We spoke for a long time and turns out she's dating someone, but she's willing to spend time with me when she comes to the states.

Here's the issue: She wont be in the states until March of next year. So I have no damn clue how I'm going to keep her interested until then. Something is just telling me to forget this one, but she is a really nice girl (from what I could see) so I don't really want to. I mean, she's bound to lose interest one day.

Opinions guys?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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like2jam

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You're right. Keeping her interested for 9-10 months is going to be a hell of a challenge, esp if she is hot AND dating someone.
 

Dom1noe

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Too much effort for a very uncertain result. Just let her contact you before she comes, otherwise you're going to come out as needy.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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That you're even entertaining the idea of "waiting on" on a girl for almost one YEAR is ridiculous. Just tell her to message you when she arrives and completely forget about her and move on. Put no more effort into this one. If you ever hear back from her, great. If not, big deal.
 
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