"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Met a great girl but I am too busy to hang out. How do I keep interest level up?

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Hi everyone, I was recently set up with a really cute girl. One of my friends set me up and I took her out to a nice restaurant. We had a little to drink, went to a club. I escalated and while she was leaning over to say something, I kissed her and we kissed for about 60 seconds. Later that night after dancing, I took her home and stayed over at her place.

Anyway, the interest is there. Only problem is that I live about 2 hours away and I have a job where I will be tied up on three consecutive weekends, so I cannot go out of town to see her.

The reason I was set up is because I am moving into her town in May.

How do I keep interest level up? I have only met her once, as I described above.... Can I ask her to come and visit me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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absolutely tell her to visit you., but let her think it is her idea. Phone her every few days and see what's up. If you like texting, this is one of the few situations where I owuld advise it, but becareful not on what you send. keep it fun, but make sure there is no way it can be misenterperated. AND STILL CALL. Tell her about some awesome new local bar or restaraunt, or some other local attraction. When she shows a little interest, use the oppurtunity to set up a date with her.
 
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Not sure if this has been discussed often, but....

If you are sure that you won't be seeing a girl for a couple weeks, what is the appropriate thing to do? Call once per week? Send a couple texts once in a while?
 
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