"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Met a GREAT girl, but, has a smelly house!!

torqueboxer

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Penkittens idea was pretty good. Thats pretty much what I was thinking. Im not trying to be this chicks slave or "provider", but with this one exception she is just about what I was thinking about when I thought of a candidate for LTR status. LOL. I can just spend more time in her room for now. The other nice thing is that she only lives 5-10 minutes from the club that I work weekends at. So after a long night I can just go and crash there. Have her make me some dinner, and a little 'dessert". LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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torqueboxer

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Some of you had good ideas. Penkitten just about hit the nail on the head. Whats nice is that she lives 5-10 minutes from the club that I work at on the weekends. Its nice to have a place so close to crash at after a long night. LOL. It would just be more enjoyable to step into a fresh smelling house. Her room is cool and that is where most of the time will be spent.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
1) Feed her dog whatever makes a dog sh!t a lot
2) Lock her dogs into the house
3) Her dogs will **** all over the plae, thus forcing her to clean the house up

Ta da!

rofl
 

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Go inside sniff the air, frawn and say " what is that smell"??

When she looks at you like she doesn't know what you are talking about (maybe she doesn't, when you live with the same bad smell for a while, you become used to it and it doesn't bother you) tell her " You know what I just remembered I have to do something, I got to go"

walk out the door and let her figure this one out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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