"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Met a GREAT girl, but, has a smelly house!!

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Penkittens idea was pretty good. Thats pretty much what I was thinking. Im not trying to be this chicks slave or "provider", but with this one exception she is just about what I was thinking about when I thought of a candidate for LTR status. LOL. I can just spend more time in her room for now. The other nice thing is that she only lives 5-10 minutes from the club that I work weekends at. So after a long night I can just go and crash there. Have her make me some dinner, and a little 'dessert". LOL
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some of you had good ideas. Penkitten just about hit the nail on the head. Whats nice is that she lives 5-10 minutes from the club that I work at on the weekends. Its nice to have a place so close to crash at after a long night. LOL. It would just be more enjoyable to step into a fresh smelling house. Her room is cool and that is where most of the time will be spent.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
1) Feed her dog whatever makes a dog sh!t a lot
2) Lock her dogs into the house
3) Her dogs will **** all over the plae, thus forcing her to clean the house up

Ta da!

rofl
 

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Go inside sniff the air, frawn and say " what is that smell"??

When she looks at you like she doesn't know what you are talking about (maybe she doesn't, when you live with the same bad smell for a while, you become used to it and it doesn't bother you) tell her " You know what I just remembered I have to do something, I got to go"

walk out the door and let her figure this one out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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