"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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met a girl today who is new to the school.

JJ109

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what do you think about this tactic.

So I met this girl today who is pretty new to the school, we talked and got to know each other for a little bit. I said that "well I'm always in the library working on stuff and we can always chill". She said that "that's cool yeah, I'm always here too" (never saw her in here before lols). So she is expecting to see me tommorow at the library but I'm not going to see her for another couple days, reason being is because it shows I'm not desperate, not predictable and mystery.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BongDuy

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well if you truely are always in the library working on stuff, be there. if you're working on an interesting project, show her and tell her. maybe shes into whatever you're working on. I wouldn't think you won't come off as desperate or predictable this early, unless you truely show that side, like asking about her ex's, virginity, if shes ever done anal before. that would also show her your creepy side.

I wouldn't say she is expecting to see you there. I mean, its not like she said " oh well when are you usually there? i'll meet you there" etc. Hope this helps
 

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girls go crazy once you don't see or call them after the first date. However this wasn't a date, but the same principles apply.
 
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