"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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met a girl today who is new to the school.

JJ109

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what do you think about this tactic.

So I met this girl today who is pretty new to the school, we talked and got to know each other for a little bit. I said that "well I'm always in the library working on stuff and we can always chill". She said that "that's cool yeah, I'm always here too" (never saw her in here before lols). So she is expecting to see me tommorow at the library but I'm not going to see her for another couple days, reason being is because it shows I'm not desperate, not predictable and mystery.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well if you truely are always in the library working on stuff, be there. if you're working on an interesting project, show her and tell her. maybe shes into whatever you're working on. I wouldn't think you won't come off as desperate or predictable this early, unless you truely show that side, like asking about her ex's, virginity, if shes ever done anal before. that would also show her your creepy side.

I wouldn't say she is expecting to see you there. I mean, its not like she said " oh well when are you usually there? i'll meet you there" etc. Hope this helps
 

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girls go crazy once you don't see or call them after the first date. However this wasn't a date, but the same principles apply.
 
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