"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met a girl online, is this real or a scam?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chance

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scam? lol, why would it be a scam.. unless she's tryin' to get money outta ya. the girl is the same in all pictures man. believe me, i'm a photographer and use to take shots of models when i worked in an agency. but still, i never believe pictures.. always get them on cam or at least talk to them on the phone, or even facebook.. cause then you can see her friends talking to her on her wall which would be proof enough.
 

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chance said:
scam? lol, why would it be a scam.. unless she's tryin' to get money outta ya. the girl is the same in all pictures man. believe me, i'm a photographer and use to take shots of models when i worked in an agency. but still, i never believe pictures.. always get them on cam or at least talk to them on the phone, or even facebook.. cause then you can see her friends talking to her on her wall which would be proof enough.
it's probably some guy who made a fake "female" profile to laugh at all the guys that msg "her". I think there were threads on here about guys doing that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lynch1000s

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chance said:
scam? lol, why would it be a scam.. unless she's tryin' to get money outta ya. the girl is the same in all pictures man. believe me, i'm a photographer and use to take shots of models when i worked in an agency. but still, i never believe pictures.. always get them on cam or at least talk to them on the phone, or even facebook.. cause then you can see her friends talking to her on her wall which would be proof enough.
The pics are too small to really tell, but one of the girls has multiple ear piercings, and another of the pictures only has one piercing. (The pics I have are bigger than those ones).

So anyways, doesn't seem like the same person to me.
 

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get her to chat online...use skype or msn and video chat her.

preferably in her bedroom, so she feels comfortable. You take control of the convo, have her do stuff for you on cam, before you know it, internet porn will be redundant since you have a live show on whenever you want it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lynch1000s

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Semtex said:
get her to chat online...use skype or msn and video chat her.

preferably in her bedroom, so she feels comfortable. You take control of the convo, have her do stuff for you on cam, before you know it, internet porn will be redundant since you have a live show on whenever you want it.
It's a scam. I asked "her" (or him or whatever this person is), why they have different photos posts, and "she" just stopped replying.

So, oh well, a scam!
 

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Well, pics were kind of small, but it looked like the same girl to me.

Maybe the reason she stopped responding was because you were asking about different pics, came across as some kind of weird creep only focused on her looks, and she stopped replying because of that?

Just a thought.
 

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DIGITIAL DECEPTION...............

ASK for a pic to be sent to your phone or to web cam......or better yet.....stop guessing and ask to meet in person.

CSI ing a pic takes time...........cut to the chase
 

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Hey Lynch,

To me, I NEVER believe in online girls, or people for the matter.

Why?
If she "finds" you, then she might have found a dozen other guys just like you.
If you "find" her, there's probably another dozen other guys just like you.

If you really wanna give a shot, ask her out, take her number. Do something instead of talking.
 
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