"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Met a girl online, is this real or a scam?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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chance

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scam? lol, why would it be a scam.. unless she's tryin' to get money outta ya. the girl is the same in all pictures man. believe me, i'm a photographer and use to take shots of models when i worked in an agency. but still, i never believe pictures.. always get them on cam or at least talk to them on the phone, or even facebook.. cause then you can see her friends talking to her on her wall which would be proof enough.
 

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chance said:
scam? lol, why would it be a scam.. unless she's tryin' to get money outta ya. the girl is the same in all pictures man. believe me, i'm a photographer and use to take shots of models when i worked in an agency. but still, i never believe pictures.. always get them on cam or at least talk to them on the phone, or even facebook.. cause then you can see her friends talking to her on her wall which would be proof enough.
it's probably some guy who made a fake "female" profile to laugh at all the guys that msg "her". I think there were threads on here about guys doing that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lynch1000s

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chance said:
scam? lol, why would it be a scam.. unless she's tryin' to get money outta ya. the girl is the same in all pictures man. believe me, i'm a photographer and use to take shots of models when i worked in an agency. but still, i never believe pictures.. always get them on cam or at least talk to them on the phone, or even facebook.. cause then you can see her friends talking to her on her wall which would be proof enough.
The pics are too small to really tell, but one of the girls has multiple ear piercings, and another of the pictures only has one piercing. (The pics I have are bigger than those ones).

So anyways, doesn't seem like the same person to me.
 

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get her to chat online...use skype or msn and video chat her.

preferably in her bedroom, so she feels comfortable. You take control of the convo, have her do stuff for you on cam, before you know it, internet porn will be redundant since you have a live show on whenever you want it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lynch1000s

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Semtex said:
get her to chat online...use skype or msn and video chat her.

preferably in her bedroom, so she feels comfortable. You take control of the convo, have her do stuff for you on cam, before you know it, internet porn will be redundant since you have a live show on whenever you want it.
It's a scam. I asked "her" (or him or whatever this person is), why they have different photos posts, and "she" just stopped replying.

So, oh well, a scam!
 

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Well, pics were kind of small, but it looked like the same girl to me.

Maybe the reason she stopped responding was because you were asking about different pics, came across as some kind of weird creep only focused on her looks, and she stopped replying because of that?

Just a thought.
 

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DIGITIAL DECEPTION...............

ASK for a pic to be sent to your phone or to web cam......or better yet.....stop guessing and ask to meet in person.

CSI ing a pic takes time...........cut to the chase
 

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Hey Lynch,

To me, I NEVER believe in online girls, or people for the matter.

Why?
If she "finds" you, then she might have found a dozen other guys just like you.
If you "find" her, there's probably another dozen other guys just like you.

If you really wanna give a shot, ask her out, take her number. Do something instead of talking.
 
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