"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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met 2nd girl from myspace

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frivolousz21

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went pretty good.... not as easy to take over as the first women...


this one has a child...and is a pretty responsible caring women...we clicked pretty well after 30 min or so...once she relaxed.

a few questions I have.....

1. I didnt kiss close..is this alright? I just looked at her and said I guess I will hug you....I really play not interested where they know I am...I dunno.

2. I joked that I would delete her myspace becuase she is crazy and Im not talking to her anymore..when I left she said it would be terrible that I am deleting it in like a flirty way I suppose.

3. I didnt say when I would contact her again...we have talked on the tele some...but Im thinking just wait until monday and talk to her on mypace like I do normall at work...or maybe call her tomorrow night?

here is the deal...I want to make my dates seperate from my desires...right now I am part AFC and part DJ...I say that because I know the DJ way and I have the nuts to get it moving.

however once I think she likes me I always want more more more....and Im not being a patient man with other things on his mind.

overall I would say it was a 8 of 10 date or meeting....even though it feels like she plays some games...I forgot how women do not directly commmunicate, the **** is always threw riddles, games, sarcasm, only the desperate ones seem to tell u they want ur nuts to ur face.



I write this stuff so you can help my progress...I realize I can figure this out over time alone...but I would like to make this go faster.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You should have kissed her, but you have one more chance on the next date. Two dates without making out is usually enough to make a girl lose interest.
 
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