"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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met 2nd girl from myspace

frivolousz21

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went pretty good.... not as easy to take over as the first women...


this one has a child...and is a pretty responsible caring women...we clicked pretty well after 30 min or so...once she relaxed.

a few questions I have.....

1. I didnt kiss close..is this alright? I just looked at her and said I guess I will hug you....I really play not interested where they know I am...I dunno.

2. I joked that I would delete her myspace becuase she is crazy and Im not talking to her anymore..when I left she said it would be terrible that I am deleting it in like a flirty way I suppose.

3. I didnt say when I would contact her again...we have talked on the tele some...but Im thinking just wait until monday and talk to her on mypace like I do normall at work...or maybe call her tomorrow night?

here is the deal...I want to make my dates seperate from my desires...right now I am part AFC and part DJ...I say that because I know the DJ way and I have the nuts to get it moving.

however once I think she likes me I always want more more more....and Im not being a patient man with other things on his mind.

overall I would say it was a 8 of 10 date or meeting....even though it feels like she plays some games...I forgot how women do not directly commmunicate, the **** is always threw riddles, games, sarcasm, only the desperate ones seem to tell u they want ur nuts to ur face.



I write this stuff so you can help my progress...I realize I can figure this out over time alone...but I would like to make this go faster.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You should have kissed her, but you have one more chance on the next date. Two dates without making out is usually enough to make a girl lose interest.
 
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