I decided to dump that Colombian I was dating. We had scheduled a date yesterday. She said after her lunch but only a little after 4 pm did she text me. Didn't reply. She texted me a few times during the day, didn't reply to any of it.
Got on badoo. Another foreign 30+ single mom. This one living permanently here though. She was really on the whole time, sent me a like even though I hadn't sent a like or messaged her. I messaged her. Asked me questions without me asking anything first. Asked how much I make and how many rooms my apartment has. Said she was looking for a room. But I said my apartment has one room and she still wanted to talk. Might be kind of a gold digger but we planned a date for today. I was going to drive to her part of town and we were going to sit in my car for half an hour and then she had work after that. She was the one that made the plan. I asked for an hour later but she couldn't.
I thought 6 hours sleep is enough. Couldn't sleep, maybe because I had eaten an orange in the evening. Drank some wine, thought it might help for sleep, don't know if it helped but eventually fell asleep. Woke up, too little sleep but thought fück it I'll go there anyway. Then my bad time managing skills came into play, left home too late, got there too late. We didn't have time to sit at all. I just drove her to her work. We chatted during the drive, 20-25 minutes roughly.
She sits there picking with her finger in her ear, telling me she's dirty because she hasn't showered for a week because she has been sick. Her language is broken so she often repeated herself during the whole date, repeated this too. I think she was saying both that her ear was dirty and that she as a whole was dirty. And she laughed about it. I noticed later she smelled a little.
When I said I wasn't at work yesterday because I had a cold she pointed to my nose and said "that's why it's like that". When we had parked I looked in the mirror. My nose was dry or something from the cold, I missed that because I was in a super hurry to take a shower and get into the car before the date. Maybe it was a little dried snot because when I was driving there my nose was running a little and driving as I was I had no other option really but to wipe my nose a little with my hand. I wasn't very sick, my cold is almost totally over.
She said she's free on Sunday and on Wednesday next week. We said we'll meet briefly before my work on Sunday or we will meet on Wednesday which is a day off work for me.
I think I might next this woman even if she calls or texts and wants to meet, because:
A) It's embarrassing that I was late. And it's embarrassing that I missed the stuff on my nose. But these two things aren't what weighs the most heavily, that's B) That she was picking her ear, possibly leaving bits of ear wax in my car. That she hadn't showered for a week. That she smelled a little.
It's a shame because looks-wise she's fückable, not super hot but fückable.
Just want to know I'm doing the right thing nexting her.
Got on badoo. Another foreign 30+ single mom. This one living permanently here though. She was really on the whole time, sent me a like even though I hadn't sent a like or messaged her. I messaged her. Asked me questions without me asking anything first. Asked how much I make and how many rooms my apartment has. Said she was looking for a room. But I said my apartment has one room and she still wanted to talk. Might be kind of a gold digger but we planned a date for today. I was going to drive to her part of town and we were going to sit in my car for half an hour and then she had work after that. She was the one that made the plan. I asked for an hour later but she couldn't.
I thought 6 hours sleep is enough. Couldn't sleep, maybe because I had eaten an orange in the evening. Drank some wine, thought it might help for sleep, don't know if it helped but eventually fell asleep. Woke up, too little sleep but thought fück it I'll go there anyway. Then my bad time managing skills came into play, left home too late, got there too late. We didn't have time to sit at all. I just drove her to her work. We chatted during the drive, 20-25 minutes roughly.
She sits there picking with her finger in her ear, telling me she's dirty because she hasn't showered for a week because she has been sick. Her language is broken so she often repeated herself during the whole date, repeated this too. I think she was saying both that her ear was dirty and that she as a whole was dirty. And she laughed about it. I noticed later she smelled a little.
When I said I wasn't at work yesterday because I had a cold she pointed to my nose and said "that's why it's like that". When we had parked I looked in the mirror. My nose was dry or something from the cold, I missed that because I was in a super hurry to take a shower and get into the car before the date. Maybe it was a little dried snot because when I was driving there my nose was running a little and driving as I was I had no other option really but to wipe my nose a little with my hand. I wasn't very sick, my cold is almost totally over.
She said she's free on Sunday and on Wednesday next week. We said we'll meet briefly before my work on Sunday or we will meet on Wednesday which is a day off work for me.
I think I might next this woman even if she calls or texts and wants to meet, because:
A) It's embarrassing that I was late. And it's embarrassing that I missed the stuff on my nose. But these two things aren't what weighs the most heavily, that's B) That she was picking her ear, possibly leaving bits of ear wax in my car. That she hadn't showered for a week. That she smelled a little.
It's a shame because looks-wise she's fückable, not super hot but fückable.
Just want to know I'm doing the right thing nexting her.
