"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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messed up - without no rubbers

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yeah messed up bigtime
In a party on monday this girl i had been flirting with from before
did it with me in one of the rooms in the house. The problem is I had sex with her without a condom and i busted inside of her. Now she is sort of pissed. is there any hope for me to continue on with her and possibly make it official or i am i done for? and what should i say to possibly help the situation without sounding like a wussy? I already called her once and left a message to figure out if shes pregnant. advice would be helpful
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Well... that was pretty dumb.


#1 why would you do it without a condom? It's people like you who DO spread the diseases because instead of showing some responsability by a) Having a condom on you at all times (that's what I do) or b) Not doing anything until you get one. (A lesser, yet very smart option)

#2 She should have been well aware that you were unprotected so it is as much her fault as it is yours, right up to the point where you decided to bust your nut inside of her. Pull out, at least... for god's sake!


What can you do? Do what? I'm not sure what you're asking.

You want to do here agin? Or are you looking for damage control?

Is she on the pill? If she isn't then you both are really, really stupid.

She won't know if she's pregnant for a few days, at least... could be a week or more before any tests could confirm or deny this
 
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dayum dat was dumb........


i would leave her alone and make sure she's not carrying your seed and in the future you should use the nightcap.

you F\/cked up i hope you know that but...atleast you got the puntang!!!!! i hope she was hot because if she wasn't you really FVCKED UP!!!
 
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yeah....drunken sex is never a good idea.
at least she was hot. :(
 
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yeah i guess bangin her again is out of the question
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^^ Now your catchin on^^^

even if you did i wouldn't that **** would have baby written all over it and sex would be straight AWKWARD!!
 
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WTF is up with all these posts about not using protection? You people are asking for trouble--wise up, use protection, and know the person you are sleeping with!
 
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All i got to say is get ready for child support.
 
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Originally posted by Don Rockstar
i feel your pain, can she take the morining after pill or something?
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Yeah, whats wrong with doing that..?
 
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lol i like that, not the time to be making jokes though.
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hmmmmm....Actually i was joking but its as real as it can get.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It’s probably too late for that now. Have you learnt a lesson at least bigworm?

KEEP IT IN UR PANTS.

Ninja out
 
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Dude, you better start gettin her attraction levels up and get her on a leash so you can at least have a say in what she decides to do post contraception wise..

I'd try to make a short term relationship happen.
 
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