"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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messed up - without no rubbers

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yeah messed up bigtime
In a party on monday this girl i had been flirting with from before
did it with me in one of the rooms in the house. The problem is I had sex with her without a condom and i busted inside of her. Now she is sort of pissed. is there any hope for me to continue on with her and possibly make it official or i am i done for? and what should i say to possibly help the situation without sounding like a wussy? I already called her once and left a message to figure out if shes pregnant. advice would be helpful
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well... that was pretty dumb.


#1 why would you do it without a condom? It's people like you who DO spread the diseases because instead of showing some responsability by a) Having a condom on you at all times (that's what I do) or b) Not doing anything until you get one. (A lesser, yet very smart option)

#2 She should have been well aware that you were unprotected so it is as much her fault as it is yours, right up to the point where you decided to bust your nut inside of her. Pull out, at least... for god's sake!


What can you do? Do what? I'm not sure what you're asking.

You want to do here agin? Or are you looking for damage control?

Is she on the pill? If she isn't then you both are really, really stupid.

She won't know if she's pregnant for a few days, at least... could be a week or more before any tests could confirm or deny this
 
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dayum dat was dumb........


i would leave her alone and make sure she's not carrying your seed and in the future you should use the nightcap.

you F\/cked up i hope you know that but...atleast you got the puntang!!!!! i hope she was hot because if she wasn't you really FVCKED UP!!!
 
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yeah....drunken sex is never a good idea.
at least she was hot. :(
 
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yeah i guess bangin her again is out of the question
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^^^ Now your catchin on^^^

even if you did i wouldn't that **** would have baby written all over it and sex would be straight AWKWARD!!
 
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WTF is up with all these posts about not using protection? You people are asking for trouble--wise up, use protection, and know the person you are sleeping with!
 
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All i got to say is get ready for child support.
 
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Originally posted by Don Rockstar
i feel your pain, can she take the morining after pill or something?
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Yeah, whats wrong with doing that..?
 
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lol i like that, not the time to be making jokes though.
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hmmmmm....Actually i was joking but its as real as it can get.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It’s probably too late for that now. Have you learnt a lesson at least bigworm?

KEEP IT IN UR PANTS.

Ninja out
 
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Dude, you better start gettin her attraction levels up and get her on a leash so you can at least have a say in what she decides to do post contraception wise..

I'd try to make a short term relationship happen.
 
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