"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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messed up, need advice

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heres the deal

I live in a house with 3 good friends, one guy and 2 girls

One of the girls in the house i've known for 2 years. Shes not attractive, I'd say a 5 is a good rating, not attractive, not unattractive. Definetley sub par for girls I'd try to get with though

Anyway, shes wanted me for a long time, and I've known this. I've always ignored it, laughed off her approaches etc., but last night I messed up. We went out to some bars and got good and drunk, went to an afterparty and got even more drunk. After we got home, one of my roommates had a bunch of people over and people ended up crashing on her bed, so she conveniently had nowhere to sleep, so she asked if she could sleep in my bed and i said fine, i was so drunk i figured i was gonna fall right asleep, man was i wrong

As i expected she put her arms around me and started kissing my neck and stuff. What can I say, I was drunk and hadn't gotten any in a few months and said **** it, so we hooked up, not sex, but everything else.

I'm now awaiting the awkward conversation where I have to confront this with her. I know I should do the right thing and tell her "hey, we're friends, we have to live together, i don't want this to be weird, I don't want to mess things up with our friendship", but some weird part of me says, 'hey, just do it one more time, bang her', then tell her. It'd be easy, after all.

advice? what would you guys do?
(sorry for rambling :))
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i kinda chuckled when i read your predictament - you drunk bastard you deserve it:)) Now your sober and reality sets in and you come to us for help!!

Did you get excited when you were making out? If so - she sees this as a good sign! How about if you have sex with her and she gets pregnant? :)) Yikes, child support and talking to her for the next 45 years. You owe her nothing - only a man should initiate so don't do this again! She knows you were drunk so you don't need to explain to her -- just tell her you were so drunk that you don't remember anything :)
 

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Dood just because your not getting any pu$$y lately doesn't mean you should bang this broad. Think about it bro, you'll totally mind fuvk her and play with her head. Even though you've told her you don't think of her like that in the past she'll think there's a possibility for something to happen since you guys are hooking up.

Go jack off so you get your senses back. Being a DJ is about being confident and smooth, its also about being real and honest. So don't mind fuvk her, just tell her the deal.



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heh yeah, you guys are right. She gets back from her mini vacation thing today so i'll tell her how this won't ever happen again

i have no friggin clue what I was thinkin when I wrote that post last night about wanting to just bang her and tell her - the worst thing about that hookup too was that she was really friggin bad at it too :p

thanks
 
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