I am trying this instant messaging thing with this chick, it is the first time I have done this. We started a couple of weeks ago and did a lot of online flirting, if you could call it that. She seemed really into me and she just arrived back in the area last night, so I asked her if she wanted to join me for coffee, adn she has not responded back yet, she jst quit talking to me even though she has been at her computer. I am dissappointed but I know it is not the end of the world and I have a couple other women i am working on in real life. Still, I don't nderstand what happened. did I commit some sort of AFC blunder, scare her away? She lives about an hours drive from me bTW. Here is our last text messaging convo:
me: (12:35:48 PM): Hi there!
her: (12:37:34 PM): hey!
me: (12:37:50 PM): how are you?
me: (12:39:31 PM): it is finally clearning up today, there was a severe t-storm warning last night, but nothing materialized
her: (12:45:50 PM): yeah its pretty here! im doing good. I think I drank too much last night. feel groggy.
me: (12:46:15 PM): hehe
her: (12:47:56 PM): I get drunk off just 1 beer
me: (12:48:38 PM): one beer, eh? that's pretty good. I bet you had nothing to eat before
her: (12:50:09 PM): well I had part of a burrito with it
me: (12:50:56 PM): okay....so they have good Mexican places out there?
her: (12:53:32 PM): yeah pretty good
her: (12:53:43 PM): but damn that burrito had alot of onion
her: (12:53:45 PM): eeek
me: (12:54:18 PM): what is there to do around there? Are you near any of te great lakes?
her: (12:54:31 PM): oh no im in sf now
me: (12:55:06 PM): onion can be good if you cook it right. I hate raw onions on hamburgers,but if you carmalize them then it is good.
her: (12:56:12 PM): yeah raw is ucky
me: (12:56:55 PM): you are? when did you get back?
her: (12:57:09 PM): yesterday
me: (12:58:07 PM): how does it feel to be back here? I guess it feels groggy so far
her: (12:58:16 PM): haha its nice
me: (12:59:14 PM): cool, I would like to meet you. have you ever been to the steps of Rome?
her: (1:00:37 PM): no, wheres that at?
me: (1:02:46 PM): I have been there many times, I sorta know how to get there-I'll look it up, it is a really cool place, it has real intalian food and coffee, etc. you are still pretty new to the area? anyway brb
me: (1:03:39 PM): 348 Columbus Avenue, San Francisco
me: (1:03:58 PM): http://www.stepsofrome.com/caffe/index.php
me: (1:04:56 PM): it is an espresso place as well as a resturant, so people can just have coffee, or dinner if they feel like it
me: (1:07:43 PM): have you found places that you like to hang out, or get coffee?
her: (1:10:07 PM): hmmmm
her: (1:10:19 PM): I havent found any coffee places yet
me: (1:10:49 PM): what area do you live in?
me: (1:11:36 PM): it sounds like you still have a lot to see and do yet in SF, do you like it so far?
me: (1:12:45 PM): I like to just go to the city sometimes, there is so much to do there, there is never not something to do
her: (1:13:30 PM): yeah theres always stuff going on
her: (1:18:05 PM): I think i'll take a shower soon
me: (1:19:29 PM): I would like to meet up, see who I've been typing to all this time! This sunday or next weekend would work.
me: (1:20:24 PM): you can also call me-408-823-4258, i would love to talk and meet up in real life.
me: (sometime later, after long silence) go take your shower and think about it, ok? you are probably very tired. No pressure, I guess i am just a little old fashioned, I like meeting people in person as opposed to the internet, that's all . have a good day and I hope to hear from you soon, take care
me: (1:28:09 PM): P.S. the rception on my phone in my place isn't that great sometimes, just leave a message or try later if you decide to call and cannot reach me. have a wonderful first day back!
me: (6:53:18 PM): have you been to point reyes yet?
me: (7:00:22 PM): thought you might wanna go there instead
me: (7:06:10 PM): i do believe that you really don't know a person and if things would work out with them until you meet them, but if you are not comfortable yet, I understand. If you want to chat more and get to know each other a little better, I'll be around.
me: (12:35:48 PM): Hi there!
her: (12:37:34 PM): hey!
me: (12:37:50 PM): how are you?
me: (12:39:31 PM): it is finally clearning up today, there was a severe t-storm warning last night, but nothing materialized
her: (12:45:50 PM): yeah its pretty here! im doing good. I think I drank too much last night. feel groggy.
me: (12:46:15 PM): hehe
her: (12:47:56 PM): I get drunk off just 1 beer
me: (12:48:38 PM): one beer, eh? that's pretty good. I bet you had nothing to eat before
her: (12:50:09 PM): well I had part of a burrito with it
me: (12:50:56 PM): okay....so they have good Mexican places out there?
her: (12:53:32 PM): yeah pretty good
her: (12:53:43 PM): but damn that burrito had alot of onion
her: (12:53:45 PM): eeek
me: (12:54:18 PM): what is there to do around there? Are you near any of te great lakes?
her: (12:54:31 PM): oh no im in sf now
me: (12:55:06 PM): onion can be good if you cook it right. I hate raw onions on hamburgers,but if you carmalize them then it is good.
her: (12:56:12 PM): yeah raw is ucky
me: (12:56:55 PM): you are? when did you get back?
her: (12:57:09 PM): yesterday
me: (12:58:07 PM): how does it feel to be back here? I guess it feels groggy so far
her: (12:58:16 PM): haha its nice
me: (12:59:14 PM): cool, I would like to meet you. have you ever been to the steps of Rome?
her: (1:00:37 PM): no, wheres that at?
me: (1:02:46 PM): I have been there many times, I sorta know how to get there-I'll look it up, it is a really cool place, it has real intalian food and coffee, etc. you are still pretty new to the area? anyway brb
me: (1:03:39 PM): 348 Columbus Avenue, San Francisco
me: (1:03:58 PM): http://www.stepsofrome.com/caffe/index.php
me: (1:04:56 PM): it is an espresso place as well as a resturant, so people can just have coffee, or dinner if they feel like it
me: (1:07:43 PM): have you found places that you like to hang out, or get coffee?
her: (1:10:07 PM): hmmmm
her: (1:10:19 PM): I havent found any coffee places yet
me: (1:10:49 PM): what area do you live in?
me: (1:11:36 PM): it sounds like you still have a lot to see and do yet in SF, do you like it so far?
me: (1:12:45 PM): I like to just go to the city sometimes, there is so much to do there, there is never not something to do
her: (1:13:30 PM): yeah theres always stuff going on
her: (1:18:05 PM): I think i'll take a shower soon
me: (1:19:29 PM): I would like to meet up, see who I've been typing to all this time! This sunday or next weekend would work.
me: (1:20:24 PM): you can also call me-408-823-4258, i would love to talk and meet up in real life.
me: (sometime later, after long silence) go take your shower and think about it, ok? you are probably very tired. No pressure, I guess i am just a little old fashioned, I like meeting people in person as opposed to the internet, that's all . have a good day and I hope to hear from you soon, take care
me: (1:28:09 PM): P.S. the rception on my phone in my place isn't that great sometimes, just leave a message or try later if you decide to call and cannot reach me. have a wonderful first day back!
me: (6:53:18 PM): have you been to point reyes yet?
me: (7:00:22 PM): thought you might wanna go there instead
me: (7:06:10 PM): i do believe that you really don't know a person and if things would work out with them until you meet them, but if you are not comfortable yet, I understand. If you want to chat more and get to know each other a little better, I'll be around.