Hey guys.
I'm new to POF, like 2 weeks into the site, and I've managed to get some responses back. I've gotten 4 random messages and 2 girls that actually replied back to my messages, and I've sent a number of messages out.
(1) For one of the girls I messaged I found a commonality and got her talking like that. But then I tried to go for e-mail address and got nothing back.
(2) Another girl that replied I messaged her about her heritage, she's Salvadorian, and I poked a little fun at it since I have many Salvadorian friends. It worked and I got her to respond and we exchanged a few messages. In the last message she sent me she asked me to tell a bit about myself. So I did and I haven't heard anything back.
The third one I was messaging actually messaged me first. She was pretty into me but I felt like she was playing games so I told her I don't have time for games. She didn't even wanna give me an e-mail or anything.
I think I'm doing allright with getting these girls to reply to my messages, but how can I make them talk to me outside of POF? I usually ask for e-mail or some sort of instant messaging username by like the 3rd message. Am I probably asking them too quickly?
Also, what should I do about girl 1 and 2? Your guys' help is greatly appreciated.
I'm willing to post my messages too!
(Girl 1)
Me: Hey you look really familiar? Were you at the metalfest show last Saturday? I can almost SWEAR I saw you there!
Her: i wanted to go so baad! did you have fun?
Me: It was probably the most br00tal show EVER! Seriously, I had never been so
bruised up from a show before that one. I got the air knocked out of me, got
punched in the face and even lost my shoe twice! Haha! But it was so worth it!
I can't believe you missed it. What could've possibly been more important than
metalfest?
Her: i didnt have a ride D: i wanted to go sooo baaad ): mehh well i guess you had fun haaha
did youu ever find yer poor little shoe? im going to see bmth ptv and adtr soon tho so
itll make up for itt
Me: Aww you poor thing you couldn't get a ride! Are you a loner? Where are all
your friends?
Are you kidding me? Those guys will not make up for it. This was one of the
craziest lineups EVER! And you missed it
But who's headlining that show with bmth ?
And yes I did find my poor lidddoo shoee hahaha. You're so kind
Her: nono, all my friends were busy working and school and stuff D: and meh i wanted to
go. i think bmth is headliningg, or adtr?
yayy mr shoe
Me: Haha you're cute. I just wanna put you in my pocket! Haha
Do you have google talk? Send me a message: josan.iracheta
This site takes too long.
*No response after that*
(girl 2)
Me:Como estamos voz? Todo bien? Haha that's my lame attempt at being salvi. What do you think? It actually sounds better in person. What is your favorite type of dance? Can you dance salsa? Cus if you can't then you're gonna be MY last resort! haha
Her: Aha funny!
So your salvadorian?
&of course I know how to dance salsa
Me: Actually I'm not Salvadorian but I am latino. Maybe you can guess my roots. I would've never thought you could dance. You look more like a hippy dancer to me, dancing over bonfires and doing crazy stuff like that! haha Well besides dancing, what else do you like to do?
Her: Oh haha well that's cool'
I'am hippyish but I got my Latin flavor ha
Well I play volleyball ,I'm studying to major
as a psychologist, dancing is my passion
But tell me a lil about yourself?
Me: That's cool I played a little volleyball in high school. I tried out for the team but unfortunately I didn't make it haha I don't wanna give out too much about myself, that would spoil all of the fun! But basically I'm a musician and a skater. I play guitar and I'm a music/guitar performance major So you can say I'm really into music. And when I'm not playing the guitar, the piano or screaming my lungs out, I'll be out skating it up! So yea I'm a really passionate person.
*no response*
Is there anything I can do with these girls? And what am I doing wrong and what am I doing well.
Thanks for your feedback!
I'm new to POF, like 2 weeks into the site, and I've managed to get some responses back. I've gotten 4 random messages and 2 girls that actually replied back to my messages, and I've sent a number of messages out.
(1) For one of the girls I messaged I found a commonality and got her talking like that. But then I tried to go for e-mail address and got nothing back.
(2) Another girl that replied I messaged her about her heritage, she's Salvadorian, and I poked a little fun at it since I have many Salvadorian friends. It worked and I got her to respond and we exchanged a few messages. In the last message she sent me she asked me to tell a bit about myself. So I did and I haven't heard anything back.
The third one I was messaging actually messaged me first. She was pretty into me but I felt like she was playing games so I told her I don't have time for games. She didn't even wanna give me an e-mail or anything.
I think I'm doing allright with getting these girls to reply to my messages, but how can I make them talk to me outside of POF? I usually ask for e-mail or some sort of instant messaging username by like the 3rd message. Am I probably asking them too quickly?
Also, what should I do about girl 1 and 2? Your guys' help is greatly appreciated.
I'm willing to post my messages too!
(Girl 1)
Me: Hey you look really familiar? Were you at the metalfest show last Saturday? I can almost SWEAR I saw you there!
Her: i wanted to go so baad! did you have fun?
Me: It was probably the most br00tal show EVER! Seriously, I had never been so
bruised up from a show before that one. I got the air knocked out of me, got
punched in the face and even lost my shoe twice! Haha! But it was so worth it!
I can't believe you missed it. What could've possibly been more important than
metalfest?
Her: i didnt have a ride D: i wanted to go sooo baaad ): mehh well i guess you had fun haaha
did youu ever find yer poor little shoe? im going to see bmth ptv and adtr soon tho so
itll make up for itt
Me: Aww you poor thing you couldn't get a ride! Are you a loner? Where are all
your friends?
Are you kidding me? Those guys will not make up for it. This was one of the
craziest lineups EVER! And you missed it
But who's headlining that show with bmth ?
And yes I did find my poor lidddoo shoee hahaha. You're so kind
Her: nono, all my friends were busy working and school and stuff D: and meh i wanted to
go. i think bmth is headliningg, or adtr?
yayy mr shoe
Me: Haha you're cute. I just wanna put you in my pocket! Haha
Do you have google talk? Send me a message: josan.iracheta
This site takes too long.
*No response after that*
(girl 2)
Me:Como estamos voz? Todo bien? Haha that's my lame attempt at being salvi. What do you think? It actually sounds better in person.
What is your favorite type of dance? Can you dance salsa? Cus if you can't then you're gonna be MY last resort! haha Her: Aha funny!
So your salvadorian?
&of course I know how to dance salsa
Me: Actually I'm not Salvadorian but I am latino. Maybe you can guess my roots.
I would've never thought you could dance. You look more like a hippy dancer to me, dancing over bonfires and doing crazy stuff like that! haha Well besides dancing, what else do you like to do?Her: Oh haha well that's cool'
I'am hippyish but I got my Latin flavor ha
Well I play volleyball ,I'm studying to major
as a psychologist, dancing is my passion
But tell me a lil about yourself?
Me: That's cool I played a little volleyball in high school. I tried out for the team but unfortunately I didn't make it haha I don't wanna give out too much about myself, that would spoil all of the fun!
But basically I'm a musician and a skater. I play guitar and I'm a music/guitar performance major So you can say I'm really into music. And when I'm not playing the guitar, the piano or screaming my lungs out, I'll be out skating it up! So yea I'm a really passionate person.*no response*
Is there anything I can do with these girls? And what am I doing wrong and what am I doing well.
Thanks for your feedback!
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