"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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RickTheToad

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@spitfire, I am told you were offended by one of my posts. I would had sent this message to you privately, but I was unable to do so. So, I am putting my feet to the fire and posting it publicly for all to see. Anyways, the post was in respond to your reply and I was just joking around. I believe I added an Lol to the end of the thread. Sometimes, posts from myself and I am sure from others come over differently to others who read it.

I apologize for offending you in anyway by that post and I will watch my wording within my threads more carefully so I do not offend you or any one else in my replies or threads. I come to SoSuave for advice and attempt to give advice where I think I may add some value from my experience in life. Am I perfect? No. Do my words sometimes come across unintentionally the incorrect way? I guess, in this case, it did. For that, I apologize.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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