"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RickTheToad

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@spitfire, I am told you were offended by one of my posts. I would had sent this message to you privately, but I was unable to do so. So, I am putting my feet to the fire and posting it publicly for all to see. Anyways, the post was in respond to your reply and I was just joking around. I believe I added an Lol to the end of the thread. Sometimes, posts from myself and I am sure from others come over differently to others who read it.

I apologize for offending you in anyway by that post and I will watch my wording within my threads more carefully so I do not offend you or any one else in my replies or threads. I come to SoSuave for advice and attempt to give advice where I think I may add some value from my experience in life. Am I perfect? No. Do my words sometimes come across unintentionally the incorrect way? I guess, in this case, it did. For that, I apologize.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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