Nearly every time I see the significant other (monogamous) of some really hot girl...
He looks nothing like the stereotypical "alpha" guy that's portrayed on this site.
One of the hottest girls I've ever knew dated this short dude who looked like the epitome of drunk mexican uncle.. In fact, I knew the guy way before I met his chick. I think the reason she liked him a lot was because he was always in a good mood and funny as sh.t. he reminds me a lot of this one comedian I forgot the name of.. some stoner guy who looks like he eats pizza nd plays video games all the time. anyways, yeah different girls value different things. not all women are superficial.
9/10 times women give more attention to the guy who is havign a blast at a party, than any hot chads. the chads become an after thought or a fantasy when the girl wants to get laid.. but when she thinks about the guy she would love to know and be close with, its usually that dude who compensates for being average as sh.t or below average by having a blast anywhere anytime
people who are superficial usually have egos, and people with egos usually are insecure about a lot of stupid sh.it and often emotionally unstable.
But yeah man, I want to start doing zoom calls or something to help others out and also learn some stuff myself. I realized whenever I get too involved with talking about my own life, things end up kind topsy turvy like a bad jenga move. I rather put my energies toward helping others. Plus people have always told me I give good advice lol