"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alright, since the school year is coming around I'm polishing all my DJ skills. I made one of those MySpace profiles since pretty much everyone in my town has one (including the HB9's). I'll find a HB that lives in my town and is going to my school this year, then add them to my friends list. Usually I'll comment them with something like
"Sup, your going to <school's name> next year, cool. We should chill some time, IM me"

I know most people are probably thinking that I should take charge and message her. What I'm trying to do is test her interest in me, see if she's willing to message me.

Is this right or wrong?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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good question. but i usually like to say "hey your not bad. whats ur sn."

i never really thought about it much, though..
 

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Go for the kill :) If you play it safe too long some other guy will take the place you wanted.
 

TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
good question. but i usually like to say "hey your not bad. whats ur sn."

i never really thought about it much, though..
I was thinking about that, problem is that most have their SN's in their profile...

Thanks for the advice danno/iron. I think from now on I'll just IM them and gauge interest from there.

EDIT: But if anybody else has any advice, your more than welcome to share :D
 

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I meet tons of ppl on myspace... and yes, what you are doing is wrong.

The comment boards are for chumps who dont get layed and close friends with inside jokes.

Just frind request her. If she accepts, then send her a simple msg/email introducing yourself, telling her a lil about you and asking her some fun questions. Take it from there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't have a picture so I naver myspaced. But I don't want to meet people online.
 

TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
I meet tons of ppl on myspace... and yes, what you are doing is wrong.

The comment boards are for chumps who dont get layed and close friends with inside jokes.

Just frind request her. If she accepts, then send her a simple msg/email introducing yourself, telling her a lil about you and asking her some fun questions. Take it from there.
I just tried this, got a response in like... 10 minutes with her screen name. I'll wait a few days then IM her. Thanks! :cheer:

aisaac: My town sucks, theres not much of a social scene in the summer. These are people that are in my town, but I just haven't met in person... yet.
 

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you've probably all seen me on myspace, i am an official myspace *****, www.myspace.com/deejayfiz -- lol, request me & my thing is..

" hey u look pretty good, gimme ur sn " - then sometimes wait a couple days , sometimes im same day... nd pull off good convo, and set a date in the nex couple days, then boom, fcuk her! :D
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
I was thinking about that, problem is that most have their SN's in their profile...

Thanks for the advice danno/iron. I think from now on I'll just IM them and gauge interest from there.

EDIT: But if anybody else has any advice, your more than welcome to share :D
oh dude if she asks why u didnt take it from her profile or mention that its there say u dont have the time to read profiles.

duh.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
oh dude if she asks why u didnt take it from her profile or mention that its there say u dont have the time to read profiles.

duh.

no that's retarded ... because shes giving u information RIGHT THERE, so it can help out with ur convo, just say u didn't see it ;]
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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