"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, since the school year is coming around I'm polishing all my DJ skills. I made one of those MySpace profiles since pretty much everyone in my town has one (including the HB9's). I'll find a HB that lives in my town and is going to my school this year, then add them to my friends list. Usually I'll comment them with something like
"Sup, your going to <school's name> next year, cool. We should chill some time, IM me"

I know most people are probably thinking that I should take charge and message her. What I'm trying to do is test her interest in me, see if she's willing to message me.

Is this right or wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem

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good question. but i usually like to say "hey your not bad. whats ur sn."

i never really thought about it much, though..
 

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Go for the kill :) If you play it safe too long some other guy will take the place you wanted.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
good question. but i usually like to say "hey your not bad. whats ur sn."

i never really thought about it much, though..
I was thinking about that, problem is that most have their SN's in their profile...

Thanks for the advice danno/iron. I think from now on I'll just IM them and gauge interest from there.

EDIT: But if anybody else has any advice, your more than welcome to share :D
 

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I meet tons of ppl on myspace... and yes, what you are doing is wrong.

The comment boards are for chumps who dont get layed and close friends with inside jokes.

Just frind request her. If she accepts, then send her a simple msg/email introducing yourself, telling her a lil about you and asking her some fun questions. Take it from there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't have a picture so I naver myspaced. But I don't want to meet people online.
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
I meet tons of ppl on myspace... and yes, what you are doing is wrong.

The comment boards are for chumps who dont get layed and close friends with inside jokes.

Just frind request her. If she accepts, then send her a simple msg/email introducing yourself, telling her a lil about you and asking her some fun questions. Take it from there.
I just tried this, got a response in like... 10 minutes with her screen name. I'll wait a few days then IM her. Thanks! :cheer:

aisaac: My town sucks, theres not much of a social scene in the summer. These are people that are in my town, but I just haven't met in person... yet.
 

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you've probably all seen me on myspace, i am an official myspace *****, www.myspace.com/deejayfiz -- lol, request me & my thing is..

" hey u look pretty good, gimme ur sn " - then sometimes wait a couple days , sometimes im same day... nd pull off good convo, and set a date in the nex couple days, then boom, fcuk her! :D
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
I was thinking about that, problem is that most have their SN's in their profile...

Thanks for the advice danno/iron. I think from now on I'll just IM them and gauge interest from there.

EDIT: But if anybody else has any advice, your more than welcome to share :D
oh dude if she asks why u didnt take it from her profile or mention that its there say u dont have the time to read profiles.

duh.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
oh dude if she asks why u didnt take it from her profile or mention that its there say u dont have the time to read profiles.

duh.

no that's retarded ... because shes giving u information RIGHT THERE, so it can help out with ur convo, just say u didn't see it ;]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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