"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mentally raping girls?

Babnik

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I see many girls in relationships where the guy she is with is a total jerk and he ABUSES her mentally. She is not happy, she is not feeling good, but she is attached forever and gives him everything. He wipes his feet against her.

Is that...love for girls???? Is that what YOU want? Would having a sad girl who you can do any time make you happy? Don't you want to see HER smiling and happy and want you?

I just hope being in control and being dominant doesn't mean abusing girls mentally to make them love you!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taker

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You'll find those girls are screwed up, insecure drama queens who think that they DESERVE the abuse. I personally never touch those girls, they LIKE playing the victim so if you DON'T hit them they'll whine about something until you do. It just ain't worth it no matter how good looking they are.

NORMAL girls WILL run from those kind of jerks. I personally think they deserve the abuse they get for being attracted to those guys in the first place.
 

Rebound Material

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Taker said:
You'll find those girls are screwed up, insecure drama queens who think that they DESERVE the abuse
Wanna know what sucks? usually, its these kinda chicks that tend to be the most attractive...:down:
 

Makkaveli101

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Rebound Material said:
Wanna know what sucks? usually, its these kinda chicks that tend to be the most attractive...:down:
But hideously insecure and destructive. I've been out with women like it before. They've got a head full of problems, many regrets and emotional ****e- they end up bringing you down with them. There are many attractive girls out there without this mind set who are very normal (well as logical and reasonable and normal as women can be :)) Trust me.
 
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