"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mentally raping girls?

Babnik

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I see many girls in relationships where the guy she is with is a total jerk and he ABUSES her mentally. She is not happy, she is not feeling good, but she is attached forever and gives him everything. He wipes his feet against her.

Is that...love for girls???? Is that what YOU want? Would having a sad girl who you can do any time make you happy? Don't you want to see HER smiling and happy and want you?

I just hope being in control and being dominant doesn't mean abusing girls mentally to make them love you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taker

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You'll find those girls are screwed up, insecure drama queens who think that they DESERVE the abuse. I personally never touch those girls, they LIKE playing the victim so if you DON'T hit them they'll whine about something until you do. It just ain't worth it no matter how good looking they are.

NORMAL girls WILL run from those kind of jerks. I personally think they deserve the abuse they get for being attracted to those guys in the first place.
 

Rebound Material

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Taker said:
You'll find those girls are screwed up, insecure drama queens who think that they DESERVE the abuse
Wanna know what sucks? usually, its these kinda chicks that tend to be the most attractive...:down:
 

Makkaveli101

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Rebound Material said:
Wanna know what sucks? usually, its these kinda chicks that tend to be the most attractive...:down:
But hideously insecure and destructive. I've been out with women like it before. They've got a head full of problems, many regrets and emotional ****e- they end up bringing you down with them. There are many attractive girls out there without this mind set who are very normal (well as logical and reasonable and normal as women can be :)) Trust me.
 
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