"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mentality Issue: I think HBs are BORING/DUMB

dynamicallyidle

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This is very bad for my DJing mentality but man...I think the hottest girls are boring, retarded, or both! I've encountered so many hot girls in my lifetime, and they just don't have it going on upstairs, in their soul, or both. Now, I honestly think I can reasonably pull down HB8s, and maybe HB9's if I'm having a great day. (HB10's are going to have to wait until I have my career in full swing.) But getting all these HB's gives me no mental satisfaction beyond the "Yay, I can do it."

It's gotten to the point where I just don't even feel like approaching an HB at a club. I've become VERY pessimistic about HB's non-physical attributes. Has anyone encountered this problem before?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Delta

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???

you can TALK to your friends!

what if they're fantastic for PHYSICAL SATISFACTION?

that's the whole point isn't it? try fvcking a bunch of em... you might find that you like it!

delta
 

diplomatic_lies

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Just curious, where do you normally hang out? At dive bars? College towns? Vegas?

The women you find will often be indicative of their environment (usually, there's exceptions). You aren't likely to meet a deep thinking girl at a drunken party or a strip club.

I met my last girlfriend at a classical concert. Looks and brains aren't as rare as you think. Just look in the right places.
 

systemshock

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Hot girls don't need to have personality, so they often don't bother to try. If you want personality go for a fat girl :)
 

Obsidian

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Systemshock is largely correct, but if you hang out at the right places, you can actually find intelligent and attractive girls.

Of course, then they're usually even *more* full of themselves, so I guess there's always a trade-off...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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