"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mentality Issue: I think HBs are BORING/DUMB

dynamicallyidle

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This is very bad for my DJing mentality but man...I think the hottest girls are boring, retarded, or both! I've encountered so many hot girls in my lifetime, and they just don't have it going on upstairs, in their soul, or both. Now, I honestly think I can reasonably pull down HB8s, and maybe HB9's if I'm having a great day. (HB10's are going to have to wait until I have my career in full swing.) But getting all these HB's gives me no mental satisfaction beyond the "Yay, I can do it."

It's gotten to the point where I just don't even feel like approaching an HB at a club. I've become VERY pessimistic about HB's non-physical attributes. Has anyone encountered this problem before?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Delta

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???

you can TALK to your friends!

what if they're fantastic for PHYSICAL SATISFACTION?

that's the whole point isn't it? try fvcking a bunch of em... you might find that you like it!

delta
 

diplomatic_lies

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Just curious, where do you normally hang out? At dive bars? College towns? Vegas?

The women you find will often be indicative of their environment (usually, there's exceptions). You aren't likely to meet a deep thinking girl at a drunken party or a strip club.

I met my last girlfriend at a classical concert. Looks and brains aren't as rare as you think. Just look in the right places.
 

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Hot girls don't need to have personality, so they often don't bother to try. If you want personality go for a fat girl :)
 

Obsidian

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Systemshock is largely correct, but if you hang out at the right places, you can actually find intelligent and attractive girls.

Of course, then they're usually even *more* full of themselves, so I guess there's always a trade-off...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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