"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mentality Issue: I think HBs are BORING/DUMB

dynamicallyidle

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This is very bad for my DJing mentality but man...I think the hottest girls are boring, retarded, or both! I've encountered so many hot girls in my lifetime, and they just don't have it going on upstairs, in their soul, or both. Now, I honestly think I can reasonably pull down HB8s, and maybe HB9's if I'm having a great day. (HB10's are going to have to wait until I have my career in full swing.) But getting all these HB's gives me no mental satisfaction beyond the "Yay, I can do it."

It's gotten to the point where I just don't even feel like approaching an HB at a club. I've become VERY pessimistic about HB's non-physical attributes. Has anyone encountered this problem before?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Delta

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???

you can TALK to your friends!

what if they're fantastic for PHYSICAL SATISFACTION?

that's the whole point isn't it? try fvcking a bunch of em... you might find that you like it!

delta
 

diplomatic_lies

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Just curious, where do you normally hang out? At dive bars? College towns? Vegas?

The women you find will often be indicative of their environment (usually, there's exceptions). You aren't likely to meet a deep thinking girl at a drunken party or a strip club.

I met my last girlfriend at a classical concert. Looks and brains aren't as rare as you think. Just look in the right places.
 

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Hot girls don't need to have personality, so they often don't bother to try. If you want personality go for a fat girl :)
 

Obsidian

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Systemshock is largely correct, but if you hang out at the right places, you can actually find intelligent and attractive girls.

Of course, then they're usually even *more* full of themselves, so I guess there's always a trade-off...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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