"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mental question

Dustin

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Well I have been DJ'ing for about a year now , but theres one thing I find really hard to do... I can easily approach girls I don't know from other places and stuff, but I find it hard to approch the girls I do know and the girls who go to my school.

For some reason I think will they think it's weird that all the sudden I am flirting with with them using my DJ'ing skills.

Does anyone know any technique and ways to get rid of that weird voice that comes to me when I am about to do it or doing it ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tr0ublemaker

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i'd just say f*ck it and do it
 

Dustin

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Annything from someone with usefull advice?
 

Skilla_Staz

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Simply just pretend you have no idea who they are. You're a new man. They don't know you. They know the old shy you. Not the new you. Theyre NEW meat.
 
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