"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mental question

Dustin

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Well I have been DJ'ing for about a year now , but theres one thing I find really hard to do... I can easily approach girls I don't know from other places and stuff, but I find it hard to approch the girls I do know and the girls who go to my school.

For some reason I think will they think it's weird that all the sudden I am flirting with with them using my DJ'ing skills.

Does anyone know any technique and ways to get rid of that weird voice that comes to me when I am about to do it or doing it ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tr0ublemaker

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i'd just say f*ck it and do it
 

Dustin

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Annything from someone with usefull advice?
 

Skilla_Staz

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Simply just pretend you have no idea who they are. You're a new man. They don't know you. They know the old shy you. Not the new you. Theyre NEW meat.
 
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